By the grace of God, and with the inspiration and encouragement of family and friends, men and women of our parish choose to make life commitments in marriage, single life, priesthood, diaconate, and vowed religious communities. These choices are strengthened by our example of living faith, our prayer for them, and our commitment to their preparation for the future.

Marriage. Engaged couples planning to be married at St. Cletus should make contact with one of the priests at least six months in advance, but should know that many couples do so at least a year prior to their preferred date. Definite plans for a wedding date should not be decided until such contact has been made and the couple’s readiness for marriage has been determined.

Preparation for marriage involves the couple taking and reviewing the FOCCUS pre-marital inventory of communication and compatibility, participating in any one of several Marriage Preparation Programs, and planning the wedding ceremony with the presiding priest. Couples in which one member is not Catholic will also meet with the priest to discuss the implications of the Catholic faith for their marriage.

Single Life. Single adults, young and old, need to know that they are valued members of our parish and society. Their perspectives on life, their talents and experiences, and their faith are a valuable resource within our Church and world. As a parish we commit ourselves to affirming and supporting them in living a Catholic Christian life-style, and to including them in the activities and organizations of our community.

Priesthood and Diaconate. The Church calls some of its members to ordination and service within the faith community as priests and deacons. Most often this call is first recognized and encouraged by family and the parish, and is a life-choice further strengthened through programs of education and information provided by the diocese. As a parish we pray for and support those who are making these life-commitments of service and leadership within the Church.